How to have a one night stand?

For a woman, nothing could be easier: create a profile on a online dating site, and voila - in an hour or less, there are half a dozen or more men offering you said adventure. For a man who is neither extroverted, nor wealthy, nor well equipped, it is a much more difficult challenge to take up. Who is approaching sixty, count on the fingers of one hand the "adventures of an evening :).

Is it okay to start a romantic relationship knowing that it won't last?

I don't understand why so many people take forever as must and the only measure of relationship success when the vast majority of relationships are finite.

If we only had "eternal" relationships, we would actually only have one. We would miss so much love and beauty. And paradoxically, we would run the risk of not making this single relationship a success, because then we would not meet all those who teach us how to do better.

Please dive into relationships that have an expiration date. Love hard. Love well. Collect the most precious and beautiful memories of your life. Have your heart broken. And the next time, try to apply all the wonderful things you learned.

Why does men enjoy themselves so quickly?

At the beginning of my relationships I had the same problem, like most men I imagine. Afterwards I followed an education program which worked very well, I could last 2 hours even overnight. On the other hand, as I flirted and made love, I understood that the essential thing is to focus on being charming and seducing a woman well (by which I mean making her feel feelings and a strong desire) and not necessarily to do a marathon. In reality the quality of the sexual relationship depends more on the state of excitement of your partner than on the actual time you are going to last (and therefore on the seduction work you did before the romantic act).

On the other hand, I admit that I often had the problem in the other direction, that is to say that I made love with a lot of girls who were already very excited so they came on and came very quickly. At the same time, this allowed me to understand that if women were men they would also be premature ejaculators. So you're going to tell me yes and then what's the problem? Well let's say that it can pose a problem because I was used to making love for several hours and when you have your partner who climbs the curtain in 1 minute while you were getting to the heart of the subject, it's really annoying (it's This is how I also understand women who find themselves with premature ejaculators). Many of you will tell me that a woman can have one orgasm after another so it doesn't matter (unlike a man where ejaculation is followed by a refractory period so that necessarily ends the sex session - except in exceptional cases).