Did you ever try 69 position?

I was young and so was my girlfriend. I couldn't last very long during intercourse and although I could make her orgasm with my hand it usually took a while because it was like opening a combination lock where I had 2of the 3 numerals required to open her lock so I needed to take time figuring out the 3rd numeral. This isn't the place for advice so I'll be brief. Don't use your fingers like a penis to finger bang because, although every woman is different, using your hands to rub, feel, massage and penetrate, with a “come hither” motion is more effective.
I wanted my girlfriend to go down on me and her first bf made that experience “unpleasant,” to remain vague. I figured in the 69 position with my penis in her face, she might get inspired. I liked her to lay on top of me, so I could keep her legs open and see her asshole. When she was near orgasm, she would squirm and open and close her legs. I later found out, she found orgasm embarrassing at 16 and 17. I would get so aroused going down on her - the smell and taste got me in a sexual frenzy. I licked her asshole one day out of sheer sexual craziness because that would have never been thought of as on the table til slowly it was.