What is the quality in men that attracts women the most?

But what do they want? A thousand-year-old question that we have not finished asking, and to which we have not finished answering!

Already, forget the nameless nonsense of women's magazines:

First, there is the famous: “We are all different”. Of course, we each have our own journey, but when we know that there are biological specificities to men and then to women, it would be delusional to think that our psychologies are all unique. So there are human psychological tendencies, then more specifically male and female. The opposite would be strange. Without these trends, detectable by observing behavioral recurrences, no life experience would be possible. We would be 100% surprised at every meeting, like goldfish.

Still in the register of absurdities, we have the famous male profile that women claim to seek: “A gentleman, attentive…” If it were true, these men should be real killers in seduction, and never remain single for more than one consecutive month. However, it is they who most often and for the longest time remain single. Go tell them that they embody the ideal man in the female speech, and they will laugh (yellow). Those who say they look for this type of man at 25, 30, or 40 years, lie shamelessly and do not admit that their desire only panics when a powerful man is hard - but fair - towards them; a man who makes decisions, does not make them an absolute priority, hold them firmly, even abuses them a bit during love, because then they feel alive, and paradoxically, protected. Why lie then? Simply because desire is animal, and theirs conflicts with feminist principles of emancipation. There is therefore a conflict between the image they have - or would like to have - of themselves, and what they really are.

However, when they say they love kindness at 50 or 55, there is probably some truth to it. Indeed, after having understood from experience that only selecting dominant and powerful males to “land” mathematically included a lot of insensitive, even brutal, and violent men in the crowd, they end up wanting a man. caring in order to “rest.” So tenderness and gentleness become qualities appreciated, but very late in a woman's life. Why lie then? Simply because desire is animal, and theirs conflicts with feminist principles of emancipation. There is therefore a conflict between the image they have - or would like to have - of themselves, and what they really are. However, when they say they love kindness at 50 or 55, there is probably some truth to it. Indeed, after having understood from experience that only selecting dominant and powerful males to “land” mathematically included a lot of insensitive, even brutal, and violent men in the crowd, they end up wanting a man. caring in order to “rest.”

So tenderness and gentleness become qualities appreciated, but very late in a woman's life. Why lie then? Simply because desire is animal, and theirs conflicts with feminist principles of emancipation. There is therefore a conflict between the image they have - or would like to have - of themselves, and what they really are. However, when they say they love kindness at 50 or 55, there is probably some truth to it. Indeed, after having understood from experience that only selecting dominant and powerful males to “land” mathematically included a lot of insensitive, even brutal, and violent men in the crowd, they end up wanting a man. caring in order to “rest.”

So tenderness and gentleness become qualities appreciated, but very late in a woman's life. and that theirs conflicts with feminist principles of emancipation. There is therefore a conflict between the image they have - or would like to have - of themselves, and what they really are. However, when they say they love kindness at 50 or 55, there is probably some truth to it. Indeed, after having understood from experience that only selecting dominant and powerful males to “land” mathematically included a lot of insensitive, even brutal, and violent men in the crowd, they end up wanting a man. caring in order to “rest.” So tenderness and gentleness become qualities appreciated, but very late in a woman's life. and that theirs conflicts with feminist principles of emancipation. There is therefore a conflict between the image they have - or would like to have - of themselves, and what they really are.

However, when they say they love kindness at 50 or 55, there is probably some truth to it. Indeed, after having understood from experience that only selecting dominant and powerful males to “land” mathematically included a lot of insensitive, even brutal, and violent men in the crowd, they end up wanting a man. caring in order to “rest.” So tenderness and gentleness become qualities appreciated, but very late in a woman's life. when they say they love kindness at 50 or 55, there is probably some truth to it. Indeed, after having understood from experience that only selecting dominant and powerful males to “land” mathematically included a lot of insensitive, even brutal, and violent men in the crowd, they end up wanting a man. caring in order to “rest.”

So tenderness and gentleness become qualities appreciated, but very late in a woman's life. when they say they love kindness at 50 or 55, there is probably some truth to it. Indeed, after having understood from experience that only selecting dominant and powerful males to “land” mathematically included a lot of insensitive, even brutal and violent men in the crowd, they end up wanting a man. caring in order to “rest.” So tenderness and gentleness become qualities appreciated, but very late in a woman's life.

So let's just remember that universally, women are attracted - since we are talking about desire and not compatibility - by masculine men, that is to say strong.

When we were hunting mammoths and drawing on the walls of our hollow caverns, the physically stronger man was the number 1 choice for these ladies. Indeed, in a dangerous world, only a strong man could protect a woman, biologically weaker, and her possible offspring. These casting reflexes have remained relatively anchored in the female subconscious. Take a tour of evolutionary psychology and learn more: the discipline is fascinating! But let's move on.

As civilizations progress, for better or for worse, a man somewhat dissolves his natural barbarism in art, technique, love, in order to use his energy to build the future as best as possible and to destroy as little as possible. At the same time, our security is entrusted to the army, urban militias, and other police forces. Thus physical strength becomes a less important criterion in the field of seduction, even if, let's face it, the world of men remains that of combat, and a two-meter tall golgoth, international boxing champion, will always have more easy to impose oneself in front of other males, therefore to seduce women, than a weakling with the shoulders of a snake; and this, even in the most civilized society in the world, even if it was Atlantis resurfacing from the waves.

Personal anecdote: a girl of my entourage, whose name I will not mention, 22 years old, tells me the other day about a 24-year-old boy, an international champion of combat sport with certain notoriety in the community, whom she frequents dotted (sometimes 8 months without seeing each other, so it is dotted in font 48) for five years. However, it would be her “number 1 choice” if she had to get into a relationship, by her own admission which will not surprise anyone. She explains to me proudly and with an inflection of the voice that goes suddenly in the treble, the sports record of this boy, the girls asking him for selfies in the street, and the TV shows he has been through. She then explains to me that the man recently called her a few days ago to “spend the evening with her”, because he was in France for one evening before leaving for competition abroad. Well, she explains to me that she drove for six hours (3 hours there / 3 hours back) to join him one night. I let you meditate on this telling example.

Today as yesterday, a strong man is above all a man who enjoys a good status, because, in the eyes of women, this means that at the end of several trials, he had to emerge victorious from the social struggle. Social success gives self-confidence, grants recognition, and respect for others, as well relative material comfort. And this success leads to success in the sentimental field, for the aforementioned reasons. And success in love leads… to more success in love.

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